Frustrated

I was having a wonderful evening until I got a phone call that threw it all out of whack. Why is it that inside of talking to me my husband get mad after listen in on my conversation. Now my conversation took all of one minute but this leaves me wondering what kind of man would listen to another persons conversation. This also make me wonder where the trust is at: he cheated I forgave him so why is he been so underhanded in the things that he is doing. Believe it or not I dont know if this marriage can be saved for I am consstantly watching what I say around him and he goes as for as to listen to my phone calls.

Feeling stuck

I feel like I am going no where. I have a BA in political science and sociology but my dream has always been to go in the Army. After three kids two which are young adults and the youngest is 15; I feel that I have taken care of my family and now it is time for my dreams and the only draw back to that is that my husband says that he supports me but I can see that he is only say that to pacify me. I work two jobs compared to his one, pay the bills, and cook daily. Yet I want to go back to school and I have a way through the Army so is it wrong for me to want to go in the Army.